Well, that's my working environment. How is yours ?
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Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Pissed off
I am quite pissed off. Why do I bother to be nice to people when all they do is treat you like rubbish ? The worst part is when the ones that treat you so are the one you take extra care to be extra nice to. Statements such as " This one opens mouth, sure bad things only come out " are becoming common. Maybe they claim that the words they say was only meant as a joke but I notice that no one else becomes the butt of these 'jokes' and its always me. They don't dare say these kind of things to others but only to me. Probably proof that the adage "Familiarity breeds contempt" is true. I should probably not be nice anymore and just be my usual self and give back sarcastically as I usually do .. I normally don't because these are my colleagues. Probably my fault for treating colleagues as 'friends'. That'll teach me.
I think part of it is that you may have let the situation get to this point. Like sometimes people will make fun of you but if you never stand up for yourself its just opening yourself up to more insults or you turn into the doofus everyone makes fun of.
ReplyDeleteLike say among friends we all dis each other and I don't get upset with you because thats the relationship we've established, but if some clown I see once in awhile at work puts me down he gets told off and learns to never do that again.
But dude you need to find a middle ground since its work, you don't want to be the prick that is always mouthing off, be nice but once someone demonstrates that its not worth being nice to them then cut them off..my 2 cents ^^
Or....you could just report them to the MACC
ok its so weird to hear this from you especially since im the one that always whines about this to you haha.
ReplyDeleteanyways im on msn if you need a shoulder :)
Each of us will meet the unhappy things.
ReplyDeleteI wish you happy