| Last nite when i was watching School Rumble eps 9 and 10, it really got to me that in fact i m a lot like Harima Kenji when it comes to liking someone. hahahah. In these 2 eps, he is trying to confess his feeling to Tenma, the girl of his dream. And he said (translated of coz) he does not wan to feel regret for not confessing and either get accepted or rejected is good enuf, no regrets. And i think, hmm......i should do like him, i dun wan to dangle as i m in now. Believe me, IT'S SO NOT FUN. Now that when i think of going into FS or karaoke, there will be a small force that constrain me from going there, well, it's her interest of coz, and i think to solve this, i need to confess!!! hahaha, i dun dare to say for sure, but i think i will b rejected, ^^ i have thought of some other possible reasons y she will reject me, and some are loosely career based. but either way, i need to confess. I dun wan to feel regret like Harima said. hhahaa. need to continue the anime to see how things going. c, even anime can sometime help u to make decision, i dunno how true is that, but it sure helped me this time around. I hope she does not have a bf yet ^^ although the chances are slim. |
At 9:15 AM,
Adole...don't be a pussy. Just do it!!! I promise you that even if you get rejected it will be much better than not doing anything.
Plus your odds of success are probably a lot higher than you think they are. Always have self confidence, no woman wants to be with a man who is to cowardly to go after and do what he want (they want to be able to strip you of that after a few years of marriage) *grin*
Just get it over with. But for the love of god, don't go and tell her you love her or that you 'know someone who likes her' because I will fly to wherever you are and tear your arms off and beat the shit out of you with them.
Again...don't be a pussy. You will die eventually. Get on with it already.
At 9:31 AM,
confession to the girl you like oh. Very difficult but that is the first step you must take. Well this is not a game. You won't have a voice tell you: someone has fall in love with you! (taken from the Guild 2) but there always have a risk involve. Just watch micheal wong "First" Music video. a lot fun in confession. Try to enjoy it.
At 10:28 AM,
michael wong one? new songs? wahh, i wan to get it, where to download?
At 1:22 PM,
ADOLE just DO IT PLEASE?!
told you many times on msn still so stubborn... GRRRR
At 2:49 PM,
Easier say than done. Take a lot of courage to do that though. But ya I agree with Kavi, just try to do it one.
At 1:03 AM,
Hard to do , I agree but it is something that you have to do cause otherwise you'll never know and will spend your whole life wondering. She might not fall for you or she might , that is out of your hands. What you can do though is to just take her out and have a great time, then tell her you like her a lot and you'd like to do it again.
At 8:53 AM,
Well it is of course fear of rejection that keeps you from acting. And don't get me wrong, even I the almighty Master Magnus-sama get nervous when it comes to telling a girl I like her or asking her out, but I don't let it stop me from doing what I gotta do.
But back to what I was getting at earlier. Don't be a pussy. Its just like exams, or a job interview. You're nervous, but does that mean you're going to just do nothing and let life pass you by?
If you act and get rejected then you know there's no hope and you can grieve and carry on with life, if you get acceptance then you could be spending time holding hands and smelling her hair instead of thinking about it. Do nothing and I promise you, you'll get nowhere.
Act!! ACT NOW!!!! Don't go and overwhelm the poor girl and tell her you're madly in love with her (although I'm partial to that if you've been friends for a long time). Like dinesh said, ask her out, dinner, movie (if you're too shy to talk). You like her right? GIve her an experience to remember.
At 9:19 AM,
sigh......yea, but it's kinda hard to ask her out, she cant go out at nite. weekends will b hard also.....i tried many instances but everytime got postponed last minute. i will try again soon. she definitely knows i like her, definitely.
ok lar, i will try whatever i can.